Boyfriend lost his job and cannot receive unemployment bcuz he is in school. i dont want to live together?

Who says he won't wanna marry you if he moves in? I mean, that's really common, but as long as you both want the same things for your life together, then marriage will still be on the radar even if you live together... If you're worried about it, tell him before he moves in that you expect marriage within a reasonable time frame because you really don't wanna live together without being married but you don't want to turn your back on him when he's in need... Or just make it temporary if neither of you is ready for marriage anytime soon. Be honest, make sure he knows you're serious and stick to your guns. If he doesn't deliver, kick him out.